“The younger person tends to be in awe of you because you have more life experience and a lot of the things that maturity brings, like power and money,” she says.
“And it’s fun to share those things, to not only be a lover but a mentor.” A lack of life experience can be both a blessing and a curse, though.
While statistics can, theoretically, be used to prove/disprove anything, smart people can usually see through the lies to focus on the numbers.
Christian Rudder, president of Ok Cupid, is the guy who digs up the numbers from the millions of people using his free dating site.
As with any situation where the potential for manipulation or coercion exist though, I'd say it has to be decided on a couple-by-couple basis.Plus, the older guy has to learn how to handle the elevated risk of being labeled a “lech” or “pervy”.Examples: Chat up one other girl in 29 year old’s presence.Any more than that and you will make her too insecure.Leave 22 year old for 30 minute stretches of time to flirt with girls in different parts of the bar.To tell men NOT to feel this way would be akin to telling them not to breathe.Now, I don’t always agree with all of the conclusions that Rudder draws from his Ok Cupid data.funny thing happened when the cable guy came by to hook up my digital converter box the other day. Now, normally this wouldn’t be a problem: The guy was cute, funny, and fairly knowledgeable about old movies (which I happen to love). At first, it was all love, romance and passion.” Roberta and her young man — who looked like a “young, well-built Sinatra” — dated for three years, during which time she took up clay sculpture, inspired by her boyfriend’s love of art (and, perhaps, his hot body). According to Ganahl, this is another upside to dating young. “The one who takes his shirt off and all the ladies gather to watch from their office window._________________What has been will be again, what has been done will be done again; there is nothing new under the sun. We love water and green trees, there is nothing in the desert. Something about the gap just doesn't compute in my brain, something is just "off" about it.I think it'd bother me less if it was say a 22 year old and a 32 year old.