If you want a short answer to when a guy should call, the best advice for you is to call her when you feel like it. Most guys give a lot more emphasis on when a guy should call than it really deserves.
You’ve obviously had a great date with this girl, or you wouldn’t be wondering about the auspicious time to call. You just can’t play by the book and wait a couple of days even if you really miss this woman and want to talk to her.
Growing up many of us heard never to call a guy and to let him call you first.
Over the years we have evolved somewhat because of things like womens lib and equal rights.
The easiest way to do this is by mirroring – giving back the same effort you get from him.When you say it to him, and others who are on the “inside” of your inside joke.But if you tried texting that to your new work associate, I'm sure it wouldn't be that funny.That is if you are looking to encourage specific feelings in a man.Never Call First This is the oldest golden rule in the book and today many women disagree.It’s justifiable for women to play hard to get, because men love the chase.But women don’t like to be kept waiting and they don’t like an insecure chase.If you haven't gathered by now, I can be (at times, painfully) sarcastic. A lot of your emotional voice will likely be omitted through basic SMS text messages, especially during the beginning stages of relationships – friendships or intimate ones.If you read my work, and don't know me personally, – or have a sh*tty detector for satire – it is likely that most of my sarcastic tone will go right over your head. There's only so much emotion our eyes can read, and pick up, in text. For instance, the way you say “get the f*ck out of here” to your college roommate, in that heavy Brooklyn accent, is f*cking hilarious.If you find a girl you really like, you're going to ultimately find yourself wanting to be yourself around her – probably after a few months of trying to impress her, treating every text-based-reply like your own wordsmith. Well, regularly enough so that you can maintain a relationship consisting of each other's real voices, without bordering on Italian/Jewish-mom-on-the-weekends status.At that point in the relationship, I urge you to call her. Find what works for you, or ideally, both you and your girl.