Eleven to one is the ratio I read earlier that night on an online dating website: If you’re in your 50s (the new 40s! You food shop occasionally, instead of regularly, and you peck at some food in front of the TV set, hopefully not watching a soap opera mash-up like . Welcome to my blog about a woman age 50-plus who recently found herself single, after being coupled pretty much her entire life. It’s 2015 and the odds of finding a compatible companion are, yes, 11 to 1. I am going to join an online dating website and engage in other date-seeking strategies and see what fate has in store for me.
To find out about the membership site and the one-on-one coaching, you can go to and click on the coaching tab or hover over the coaching tab, and both programs will show up. What should a mature woman always include in her online dating profile?
If money is hugely important, pre-screen your dates better. I'm not just going to jump into bed." And that's a good point. Someone brilliant once said, "Men sleep with women to see if there could be a relationship. It's a tough bind for guys, who aren't all that bright to begin with, and we often get it wrong.
Women sleep with men because they believe there already is a relationship." If that's true, it's sort of amazing anyone gets together, but they do. Men Are Confused by Women's Definition(s) of "Controlling Behavior." On many of the dates I've had, women talk about the controlling behavior of former partners. Worse yet, the metric for what is controlling changes, so that something we did one day that was just right somehow is too controlling when we do the same thing two weeks later. I just know it's a problem that men cannot solve, and it might help you to be aware of our confusion.
Lisa Copeland is a highly respected dating expert and coach for women over 50.
In addition to being a blogger, author and speaker, Lisa offers one on one coaching for women who are struggling to find a quality man after 50. The problem is, just because a man is handsome doesn’t mean he’s going to be there for you.