I know that sounds harsh, but let me explain my theory on Christian dating. But I do believe that if you are seeking God’s will about who you date, He will lead you to someone that is a true fit for you.I don’t mean that your future spouse will be perfect or that you will think alike or always agree on everything. But I do believe that if you seek God’s guidance, He will lead you to the person who is going to be the match for you.I’ve read many books about relationships and Christian dating. His views helped me establish my own standards regarding marriage.I decided that I wanted nothing less than God’s best for me. It means if you have doubts about the relationship, if your significant other doesn’t treat you with the upmost respect, if you argue more than you get along, if you constantly find yourself defending him or her to your friends, then end it.If you and your significant other are involved in sexual activities before marriage, then you are laying the groundwork to be involved in sexual activity with other people after you are married.God’s Word is clear that sex is only for marriage (Hebrews 13:4).Even people who do not consider themselves to be Christians usually get up in arms when they hear that their spouse committed sexual infidelity.
I dated as a Christian but was STILL all up in the world & I courted God's way-- where my husband and I didn't kiss until our wedding day. Not only will you be able to see each serve in ways of selflessness, but it will be a great opportunity to see each other get used by the hand’s of God.WORSHIP TOGETHER Whether you are at a local church, conference or sitting in your living-room, worshipping God is available no matter the circumstance. into your courting relationship and you find yourself having to . You WANT to live for GOD for real but you aren't convinced that you should break up with your boo. And let's clear this up-- if you cannot STOP having sex-- lasciviousness has crept into your relationship. so tell your little flesh to shut up & be determined to obey GOD. And for those of you who are smiling as you read this & thinking.. we have messed around but haven't gone the whole way"-- well, babygirl, I'm talking to YOU as well. Then, you wonder why you want to live it out & be sexual with your guy! sometimes, you want to EXPRESS it physically by kissing, rubbing, cuddling.. YOU don't want your relationships to mirror your past relationships but you can't quite figure out how to "court" or date .. You KEEP taking your past ways of thinking from the world.. but you can't hear because your vision is all clouded because you're in "love"-- So first step-- go to God-- MAKE sure that God is ok with you even staying with that person. My now husband and I didn't hang out LATE at each others house! We were never at each others home late at night PERIOD. YOU will desire whatever you put in front of you & give your attention to.. So he should keep his paws off your body that doesn't belong to either one of you until you get MARRIED. DO you know that those things plant seeds in your heart. I believe that God pairs us up with people that complement the gifts, talents, and personalities that He has given us – if we let Him. The guys I dated before I began dating my husband were not all bad guys. We genuinely cared about each other and had fun together.But in each relationship there were things that didn’t feel quite right.PRAY TOGETHER I believe that those who pray together will stay together.And while prayer might be one of those things some view as a private act, I’d encourage you to open up and start praying with whoever you try to deepen your relationship with.Come together in this time and selflessly place your heart in the hands of God.READ THE BIBLE TOGETHER If you want to have a Christ-centered relationship, there is nothing better than studying the Bible together!