According to dating coach Sue Mandel, “Give someone a chance.
Specific information does more than make you sound interesting – it also gives potential dates something to write to you about.
"If you are looking for a partner with a similar outlook and interests as yourself, the best place to start is with a niche dating website," says co-founder of Muddy Matches Lucy Reeves.
"Muddy Matches, is aimed at people who live a 'muddy-boots' lifestyle, so attracts people who enjoy an outdoors lifestyle."When you are going through the reams of potential partners on the internet - or when you meet them on a date - it's all too easy to have a shopping list mentality.
What the hell are you supposed to say about yourself in your profile? [pagebreak] OUT-OF-TOWN AND OUT OF TOUCH The scenario: “A guy sent me a message saying that he wanted to meet up for a drink, but when I asked when he was free, he said he was ‘going out of town’ for the next two weeks and that we should schedule something after.” — Andrea, 31 The problem..the solution: If you tell a girl you’re “going out of town,” she’s going to assume you’re busy dating other women.
By the time your date comes around, she’ll already have lost interest or have found someone more attentive.