I’m sorry, but there’s no way I can hide my unshakable, moral compass on this one – it’s weird and wrong and awful for a number of valid reasons.
If the friend does have a problem with this, the choice to mess up the squad is completely up to you.
For me, the whole ‘follow your heart’ or ‘the heart wants what the heart wants’ cliches should be thrown out the window here.
Consider what it would feel like if the roles were reversed.
Why fight the urge to date someone you really like just because the two of you have a friend in common?
For those emboldened by Swift’s words, here are five ways to date your friend’s ex — without making it totally awkward. 1: If you want to get to know your pal’s ex better, you have to get your bud’s blessing first.