In psychology, relationship obsessive–compulsive disorder (ROCD) is a form of obsessive-compulsive disorder focusing on intimate relationships (whether romantic or non-romantic).
Such obsessions can become extremely distressing and debilitating, having negative impacts on relationships functioning.
Ethan Smith, a 38-year-old writer and director based in Los Angeles, said he, at one point, checked his temperature 60 to 70 times a day.
During a date, he would hold up a menu to hide the thermometer."The next day, I would be a total basket case, wondering what if she was sick, what if she's got a stomach virus," he said.
Now, going back 5 weeks from today she just flipped a switch. We were intimate, she kissed me, held hands, laughed, all the typical stuff.Obsessive-compulsive disorder comprises thoughts, images or urges that are unwanted, distressing, interfere with a person's life and that are commonly experienced as contradicting a persons' beliefs and values.Attempts to suppress or "neutralize" obsessions increase rather than decrease the frequency and distress caused by the obsessions. I have been in a wonderful relationship for 4 years with a 10 year sufferer of OCD.We are both 25 with successful jobs and i'd say very mature for our age - both have been in relationships before but never worked out. There was a part of me that felt guilty about being on a date at all. You’ve already fucked it up, so you might as well enjoy it.”I did enjoy it. You’ll be happier for it.”I was genuinely excited when I came out of his office. But I figured it was actually the psychiatrist’s idea, and so I asked out Nadia, a girl I knew through a mutual friend.♦◊♦We met at the movie theatre. I salvaged enough self-respect to ask her on a second date. Some people with OCD may experience obsessions relating to the way they feel in an ongoing relationship or the way they felt in past relationships (ROCD).Repetitive thought about a person's feelings in intimate relationships may occur in the natural course of the relationship development; however, in ROCD such preoccupations are unwanted, intrusive, chronic and disabling. I’d taken myself out of the whole coupling game for five years. I thought I was a rapist, a murderer, an abomination before God. But, because I liked them, I also didn’t want always to avoid them. For example, could not invite people to hang out but we could hang out if they invited me. “That’s the main part of your therapy.”“I just don’t know if that’s a nice reason to date someone. Besides, part of what you want from a first date is to find out what’s wrong with the other person. On the other hand, I ought to be able to talk about my dreams and ambitions as well. So, in the seven minutes we had until the movie started, she learned that, “I like movies, and want to write screenplays and maybe act, I wet myself in class in the first grade, I pick my teeth and ears and sometimes let people walk all over me, I’m passive aggressive, I like James Joyce, I’m pretentious, I’m great at basketball, I’m clumsy and hopeless at practical things, but I was always in the gifted programs at school, I’m learning Latin because I think they should still teach it, I waste time on the internet looking up pictures of celebrities (not porn), and I’m not sure if I still believe in God so I feel hypocritical going to church though hypocrite’s the wrong word because that just means to claim righteousness when you are not yourself righteous and I know I’m not righteous I mean I’m very non judgmental I mean two people came out to me even and you can’t say that about many people from Langford and my voice goes too loud if I get excited and…”It goes on.