Man A: My first one-night stand happened while traveling abroad and she lives in completely different country than I do.One night when my parents were gone, I texted her to see what she was doing and she came over and we slept together.If you feel like she’s had too much to drink, set her up on your couch with water and Advil. [pagebreak] DO: If you’re not looking for anything serious, just say so.It’s respectful to her, and feel better about yourself in the morning too DON’T: This goes without saying, but don’t try and persuade her to have sex with you if she says no. It’s much better to be upfront about what you want so she’s not confused, and it’ll save you looking like an ass later.From work to the gym to the bar, my schedule is crammed full of things that help me forget that I am sometimes horridly lonely.Like everyone, sex can slide down my list of priorities without me even realising. Others find themselves feeling deflated afterward, whether or not they had level-set expectations beforehand.
And you see, we gals can weave a complex web of sexual starvation for ourselves to flounder in.
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DO: Before you go home with someone while drinking, assess whether she seems sober enough to be making a clear, rational decision.