"Yet here I was, husband hunting and armed with only a handful of half-assed bullet points."Online dating is now the third most common way couples meet, with 30 to 40 percent of singletons logging in to some 1,500 services.In the marvelously titled (Current), writer Dan Slater tracks a phenomenon that started in 1965 with "computer dating"—essentially a digital compatibility test, dreamed up by two lovelorn Harvard undergrads desperate to meet Radcliffe girls—and mushroomed into an estimated billion a year industry.In 2000, Brenda Allison graduated from law school and moved to Chicago.
"I had to go to Kinko's and scan in a picture of myself for my profile." Soon after that, she was on a date.In fact, this “gold fish secret” is THE #1 thing you MUST understand if you’re serious about creating instant attraction with your “type” of woman, no matter how hot she is.(I’m pretty jealous that my friend Josh was the guy to discover it :)) The best part is, this technique is the ultimate “equalizer” -- meaning that it allows you to beat out guys who are taller, wealthier, better looking or even more well-endowed.One night, after another bad match and a solo bottle of wine, Webb rejoined JDate—this time posing as a man, to check out her competition. Webb crafted 10 male profiles so perfect they had to be fake (sample code name: Jewish Doc1000) to gather data: what the site's most popular women looked like, which keywords they used, how they timed their messages.(Duffon), one of three new books about online dating out this month, in which she recounts how she cracked the online dating code to meet her now husband.Play the Field"It's important to be in more than one community," Davis says."It's like being in more than one social circle." She suggests joining one mainstream site (say, e Harmony or Match.com) as well as one niche service, such as Cupidtino, which brings Apple-product obsessives together, or the unapologetically elitist Sparkology (the site's men—but not its women! "Changing sites from time to time, and then revisiting, is the best strategy," says Davis. Ace Your Profile"Your user name is going to inspire them to click," says Davis, who suggests a terminology mash-up (e.g., Sporty Smile)."I'm a lawyer, and it's a job that takes up a lot of time," she says."I didn't know how I was going to meet someone, especially when with what little free time I had I wanted to spend it with my friends." Heeding advice from friends living in New York City, Allison turned to the Internet.how your body language could instantly put you into the “friend zone” (and what to do about it)... Don’t miss this chance to see what all the fuss is about. no, it's just based on the fact that Josh's last 12 events have filled up fast, usually in under 48 hours, and I don't want you to miss this.Just CLICK and register NOW while there's still time.